Roderick on the Line

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00:00:34 ◼   ► hello hi John I'm Merlin how's it going [TS]

00:00:41 ◼   ► mmm pretty good huh [TS]

00:00:45 ◼   ► I have a little nosh tell em who else in [TS]

00:00:53 ◼   ► my coffee while you're eating [TS]

00:00:55 ◼   ► yeah I always forget where you are but [TS]

00:01:04 ◼   ► you're really johnny-on-the-spot [TS]

00:01:05 ◼   ► johnny-on-the-spot for starting at eight [TS]

00:01:11 ◼   ► yeah yeah there's a spot and i am [TS]

00:01:14 ◼   ► johnnie upon it you are upon it and m [TS]

00:01:19 ◼   ► boy I gave I gave you the signal [TS]

00:01:25 ◼   ► yeah which is an unflagging an effect on [TS]

00:01:28 ◼   ► inflected beep that's right right we we [TS]

00:01:33 ◼   ► established this very early or very [TS]

00:01:35 ◼   ► early on we would say bleep or bloop [TS]

00:01:38 ◼   ► yeah I don't think we've discussed it [TS]

00:01:40 ◼   ► much or ever but that's how we would [TS]

00:01:43 ◼   ► speak to each other on the internet we [TS]

00:01:44 ◼   ► would say blue pen blue porcelain [TS]

00:01:46 ◼   ► doesn't such a bleep and bloop for a [TS]

00:01:48 ◼   ► very long time not to be confused with [TS]

00:01:50 ◼   ► gleep glorp no no I have nothing to do [TS]

00:01:52 ◼   ► with it all you would say bleep and I [TS]

00:01:57 ◼   ► would say blorp or vice versa and then [TS]

00:02:00 ◼   ► we would start the show [TS]

00:02:01 ◼   ► yeah and then it got shortened some at [TS]

00:02:03 ◼   ► some point along the way to beep uh huh [TS]

00:02:06 ◼   ► i would just write beep with not no [TS]

00:02:08 ◼   ► punctuation so I sent you a beep just a [TS]

00:02:11 ◼   ► minute ago and you immediately called me [TS]

00:02:14 ◼   ► and i had a mouthful peanut butter [TS]

00:02:15 ◼   ► sandwich cheese Louise I'm sorry I'm [TS]

00:02:17 ◼   ► late [TS]

00:02:18 ◼   ► ok i turned a corner here's something I [TS]

00:02:21 ◼   ► turned upon which johnny turned a corner [TS]

00:02:23 ◼   ► is my son [TS]

00:02:24 ◼   ► yeah okay i'll share this with you ah [TS]

00:02:27 ◼   ► you know I think there's a couple [TS]

00:02:29 ◼   ► schools of thought well as many schools [TS]

00:02:31 ◼   ► of thought there's many many schools of [TS]

00:02:33 ◼   ► thought about doing things and two kinds [TS]

00:02:37 ◼   ► of people [TS]

00:02:37 ◼   ► yeah right two kinds of people one kind [TS]

00:02:40 ◼   ► thinks there are many yes their schools [TS]

00:02:42 ◼   ► of thought [TS]

00:02:43 ◼   ► yes yeah and so I I historically was was [TS]

00:02:51 ◼   ► a variety of things that i do [TS]

00:02:52 ◼   ► differently than other people [TS]

00:02:53 ◼   ► something is doing the past that almost [TS]

00:02:54 ◼   ► everybody does here's the thing most I'm [TS]

00:02:56 ◼   ► trying to diagram with them [TS]

00:02:58 ◼   ► okay well it's hard to describe this [TS]

00:02:59 ◼   ► here's the thing we don't how can I put [TS]

00:03:02 ◼   ► this [TS]

00:03:02 ◼   ► I don't edit this show it is it is fun [TS]

00:03:05 ◼   ► funny and farcical to me when I see what [TS]

00:03:09 ◼   ► my wonderful wonderful friends go [TS]

00:03:11 ◼   ► through with editing a show and they [TS]

00:03:12 ◼   ► proudly display all these millions of [TS]

00:03:14 ◼   ► cuts to take out every mm and all and [TS]

00:03:18 ◼   ► the extent of editing I've done on here [TS]

00:03:20 ◼   ► was before I eat you [TS]

00:03:23 ◼   ► he just started saying your daughter's [TS]

00:03:24 ◼   ► name like a crazy person I used to try [TS]

00:03:25 ◼   ► to bleep it then I said forget it i'm [TS]

00:03:26 ◼   ► done with that it's too much work down a [TS]

00:03:28 ◼   ► bleep there and then occasionally these [TS]

00:03:30 ◼   ► episodes I just didn't put out that's [TS]

00:03:31 ◼   ► that was my editing but it's too big [TS]

00:03:33 ◼   ► swim lanes straight o'clock across and [TS]

00:03:36 ◼   ► it might my thinking you know it's a yes [TS]

00:03:39 ◼   ► and as soon as we are on the stage [TS]

00:03:42 ◼   ► the show has begun for so let's share [TS]

00:03:45 ◼   ► with our listeners that unless you're [TS]

00:03:47 ◼   ► your internet brakes which it does we [TS]

00:03:49 ◼   ► don't have a thing where we I say good [TS]

00:03:50 ◼   ► morning John are you ready to record our [TS]

00:03:53 ◼   ► podcast no no because that would ruin it [TS]

00:03:56 ◼   ► because we're going to you yet that you [TS]

00:03:58 ◼   ► gotta just you i want you to see us [TS]

00:03:59 ◼   ► we're picking up the phone were speaking [TS]

00:04:01 ◼   ► to each other and we don't there's no [TS]

00:04:03 ◼   ► there's no like I don't want to kind of [TS]

00:04:05 ◼   ► in band signal about whether you're [TS]

00:04:07 ◼   ► ready to use your phone beep beep bloop [TS]

00:04:10 ◼   ► and so then the other part is so I [TS]

00:04:12 ◼   ► believe in that and and lots of people [TS]

00:04:13 ◼   ► disagree with that because they love [TS]

00:04:14 ◼   ► their editing I know do they love their [TS]

00:04:16 ◼   ► editing the other thing is I used to be [TS]

00:04:19 ◼   ► the kind of person that said when I saw [TS]

00:04:21 ◼   ► you saw a person show up on skype skype [TS]

00:04:23 ◼   ► at them and I'd say hi [TS]

00:04:25 ◼   ► are you ready to record our internet [TS]

00:04:28 ◼   ► podcast and they go yes I'm ready to [TS]

00:04:32 ◼   ► record our internet podcast or no [TS]

00:04:34 ◼   ► I'm almost ready to record our internet [TS]

00:04:36 ◼   ► podcast I gotta go go make a number one [TS]

00:04:40 ◼   ► or a coffee [TS]

00:04:42 ◼   ► yeah I stop stop doing that to see I [TS]

00:04:45 ◼   ► stopped doing that so now if you did to [TS]

00:04:46 ◼   ► me I'm like this they ok recording i [TS]

00:04:48 ◼   ► would say yeah you know I was ready for [TS]

00:04:50 ◼   ► love I'm here [TS]

00:04:51 ◼   ► yeah right i was really when I was here [TS]

00:04:53 ◼   ► w you stop doing that with everybody is [TS]

00:04:55 ◼   ► that what you're saying well I you know [TS]

00:04:56 ◼   ► the let the last one was a nice to John [TS]

00:04:59 ◼   ► siracusa yeah he's the worst he's the [TS]

00:05:01 ◼   ► worst at this because like I he shows up [TS]

00:05:03 ◼   ► exact exactly our point i'm always [TS]

00:05:05 ◼   ► always always [TS]

00:05:06 ◼   ► that's right there a problem yeah he's [TS]

00:05:08 ◼   ► nice and he's an Italian so he shows up [TS]

00:05:11 ◼   ► and then I used to say hi [TS]

00:05:15 ◼   ► uh-huh you require internet podcast for [TS]

00:05:17 ◼   ► podcasting here and right and so what [TS]

00:05:21 ◼   ► you would turn into the penguin [TS]

00:05:22 ◼   ► Oh Squidward but yeah and then these [TS]

00:05:26 ◼   ► hours and then eat the we've recorded i [TS]

00:05:29 ◼   ► don't know how many episodes 37 episodes [TS]

00:05:31 ◼   ► of that show and he's never the first [TS]

00:05:32 ◼   ► one to talk [TS]

00:05:34 ◼   ► so all the line has been picked up he [TS]

00:05:36 ◼   ► does not acknowledge me and so then I [TS]

00:05:39 ◼   ► say they said and eventually I said you [TS]

00:05:41 ◼   ► know it's funny I said to him I said [TS]

00:05:42 ◼   ► it's funny chance acusa you never never [TS]

00:05:45 ◼   ► talk first [TS]

00:05:46 ◼   ► yeah and then he stays quiet for a while [TS]

00:05:48 ◼   ► oh and eventually I realized it's [TS]

00:05:51 ◼   ► because he's one of these monsters who [TS]

00:05:52 ◼   ► is used to being on a show that is [TS]

00:05:54 ◼   ► edited we say hi [TS]

00:05:56 ◼   ► are you ready to reporter internet [TS]

00:05:57 ◼   ► podcast oh and then you do you go around [TS]

00:06:01 ◼   ► he says everybody recording you say is [TS]

00:06:03 ◼   ► everybody had their stuff turned off [TS]

00:06:04 ◼   ► turn off your air conditioner and go [TS]

00:06:05 ◼   ► through all this stuff that this show is [TS]

00:06:07 ◼   ► what's the word energetic everything [TS]

00:06:10 ◼   ► that happens on this show is happening [TS]

00:06:11 ◼   ► on this show that is one hundred percent [TS]

00:06:14 ◼   ► true that include that one conversation [TS]

00:06:16 ◼   ► about the show everything that happens [TS]

00:06:18 ◼   ► on this show is happening on this show [TS]

00:06:20 ◼   ► it's all happening right it's very [TS]

00:06:23 ◼   ► unusual for us to do anything that is [TS]

00:06:25 ◼   ► not part of the show on the show it so [TS]

00:06:27 ◼   ► well I can't think of a single time it's [TS]

00:06:29 ◼   ► happened but then I've never listen [TS]

00:06:31 ◼   ► never seen the show yeah I when I go on [TS]

00:06:33 ◼   ► someone's when i'm on guest as a guest [TS]

00:06:36 ◼   ► on someone else's podcast and they pick [TS]

00:06:40 ◼   ► up they call me on the skype and I say [TS]

00:06:43 ◼   ► hey whats up guys and they say hey John [TS]

00:06:45 ◼   ► it's me bill and hide [TS]

00:06:48 ◼   ► me Tony or you know they let me start by [TS]

00:06:51 ◼   ► telling you a little about myself [TS]

00:06:53 ◼   ► well then you know where we have I have [TS]

00:06:55 ◼   ► guessed it on podcast where we talked [TS]

00:06:57 ◼   ► for 15 minutes [TS]

00:06:59 ◼   ► top shelf talking at least on one end [TS]

00:07:02 ◼   ► who and then there and then they say [TS]

00:07:05 ◼   ► well we should get started uh i have [TS]

00:07:09 ◼   ► almost I've almost logged off [TS]

00:07:12 ◼   ► I've almost locked off the internet [TS]

00:07:13 ◼   ► forever when that has happened that goes [TS]

00:07:16 ◼   ► up are you are you are you fucking [TS]

00:07:18 ◼   ► serious thats that's monstrous you think [TS]

00:07:21 ◼   ► I've got 40 40 hours to do this I was [TS]

00:07:24 ◼   ► just giving you that was that was [TS]

00:07:25 ◼   ► already good good good shit always be [TS]

00:07:28 ◼   ► always be taping you know just get it [TS]

00:07:31 ◼   ► get it all [TS]

00:07:32 ◼   ► that's good because you know it's a [TS]

00:07:34 ◼   ► potentially shows these people were [TS]

00:07:36 ◼   ► talking about podcast but be people to [TS]

00:07:37 ◼   ► get their outline and they get their [TS]

00:07:39 ◼   ► banter and get the bit like and get [TS]

00:07:41 ◼   ► explain to you how old this little for [TS]

00:07:43 ◼   ► you come on we're going to describe who [TS]

00:07:45 ◼   ► you are and we're going to talk about [TS]

00:07:47 ◼   ► that and you know I when I went on a car [TS]

00:07:49 ◼   ► ride one time with a couple of the [TS]

00:07:51 ◼   ► couple of people from the internet this [TS]

00:07:54 ◼   ► was a this is a car ride IRL [TS]

00:07:57 ◼   ► oh dear ok arm and they were in town to [TS]

00:08:01 ◼   ► do a live version of their podcast these [TS]

00:08:03 ◼   ► are people that we know you know what [TS]

00:08:05 ◼   ► I'm saying oh these are some people that [TS]

00:08:07 ◼   ► I know [TS]

00:08:08 ◼   ► ok so we're driving we were driving [TS]

00:08:12 ◼   ► around after their live podcast show and [TS]

00:08:16 ◼   ► they were talking to one another that [TS]

00:08:18 ◼   ► are still performing let's be honest [TS]

00:08:21 ◼   ► they don't even off the stage for an [TS]

00:08:23 ◼   ► hour we are we were on our way to an [TS]

00:08:24 ◼   ► ihop to it which is for those of you in [TS]

00:08:28 ◼   ► other countries it's the International [TS]

00:08:30 ◼   ► House of Pancakes ironic [TS]

00:08:32 ◼   ► yeah so if you don't have a hops there [TS]

00:08:35 ◼   ► you must not have international pancakes [TS]

00:08:36 ◼   ► in your country probably flying i think [TS]

00:08:38 ◼   ► it's called flag of convenience right [TS]

00:08:41 ◼   ► well the flag of convenience of [TS]

00:08:43 ◼   ► international house of pancakes is if [TS]

00:08:45 ◼   ► you recall all the flags who released [TS]

00:08:47 ◼   ► all the scandinavian legs who remember [TS]

00:08:50 ◼   ► the original the original branding was [TS]

00:08:52 ◼   ► like like all the flags skin maybe I [TS]

00:08:56 ◼   ► remember that feeling [TS]

00:08:57 ◼   ► like a what kind of a kind of house we [TS]

00:08:59 ◼   ► call a frame that it had a kind of [TS]

00:09:02 ◼   ► Scandinavian feel to it and I remember [TS]

00:09:05 ◼   ► they had a variety of syrups on the [TS]

00:09:06 ◼   ► table they did they did and the roof was [TS]

00:09:09 ◼   ► was was an a-frame in order to for the [TS]

00:09:11 ◼   ► snow to slide off in the in their home [TS]

00:09:14 ◼   ► country of Scandinavia where [TS]

00:09:16 ◼   ► International House of Pancakes surely [TS]

00:09:17 ◼   ► started just like haagen-dazs ice cream [TS]

00:09:19 ◼   ► yes is a great scandinavian brand who [TS]

00:09:22 ◼   ► imported directly from scanning that's [TS]

00:09:25 ◼   ► right and not at all made in a suburb of [TS]

00:09:28 ◼   ► New Jersey whatever and I remember when [TS]

00:09:31 ◼   ► you know International House of Pancakes [TS]

00:09:33 ◼   ► it is for me dated to a time back when [TS]

00:09:38 ◼   ► certain kinds of chain fast food was [TS]

00:09:44 ◼   ► still fancy remember when absolutely we [TS]

00:09:48 ◼   ► had like.we chain called bill Knapp's [TS]

00:09:50 ◼   ► and was kind of like upscale ok nappp [TS]

00:09:54 ◼   ► and it was kind of like a slightly make [TS]

00:09:57 ◼   ► nicer than Perkins but like slightly [TS]

00:09:59 ◼   ► upscale chain comfort food but it's like [TS]

00:10:02 ◼   ► where you got places to go after church [TS]

00:10:04 ◼   ► if you didn't go to the cafeteria you go [TS]

00:10:06 ◼   ► to one of these kinds of places bob [TS]

00:10:07 ◼   ► evans is another woman Bob Evans bob [TS]

00:10:09 ◼   ► evans that's a quality brand [TS]

00:10:11 ◼   ► yep and i want to be I want to be called [TS]

00:10:14 ◼   ► Bob map from now on [TS]

00:10:16 ◼   ► Bob naps built up your bill maps I feel [TS]

00:10:20 ◼   ► like that's a that's a super good [TS]

00:10:22 ◼   ► internet handle high my hand building [TS]

00:10:25 ◼   ► outcome our guest this week we're gonna [TS]

00:10:26 ◼   ► bring bill Knapp's anyway i'm driving [TS]

00:10:29 ◼   ► with these guys yet always you get [TS]

00:10:33 ◼   ► started i was driving with these guys [TS]

00:10:36 ◼   ► and they were talking that this was not [TS]

00:10:38 ◼   ► a thing that they didn't solicit my [TS]

00:10:40 ◼   ► opinion but they were like yeah you know [TS]

00:10:42 ◼   ► the thing about our podcast that makes [TS]

00:10:44 ◼   ► it so successful is that where you know [TS]

00:10:46 ◼   ► we both come from radio yeah this is the [TS]

00:10:48 ◼   ► best not cast and so we know what we [TS]

00:10:52 ◼   ► know what people want to hear we know [TS]

00:10:54 ◼   ► how to make podcasts because II came [TS]

00:10:58 ◼   ► from radio and the thing you know one [TS]

00:11:00 ◼   ► thing I can't stand the other guys like [TS]

00:11:02 ◼   ► what what I can't stand those podcast [TS]

00:11:05 ◼   ► was just two guys talking and they don't [TS]

00:11:07 ◼   ► do any editing [TS]

00:11:08 ◼   ► and.and I was sitting there sitting on [TS]

00:11:10 ◼   ► my hands at this point who I had a lot [TS]

00:11:12 ◼   ► of pop in so i wouldn't talk [TS]

00:11:13 ◼   ► yep and they went on a 10-minute screen [TS]

00:11:16 ◼   ► about how podcast that are edited are [TS]

00:11:19 ◼   ► just the worst like crime against the [TS]

00:11:22 ◼   ► listener because people want crafted [TS]

00:11:27 ◼   ► radio people want podcast that are [TS]

00:11:29 ◼   ► crafted handcrafted and hand and I was [TS]

00:11:33 ◼   ► just I was sitting there like well shit [TS]

00:11:35 ◼   ► no no hard part is pretty fun it's fun [TS]

00:11:38 ◼   ► to do that went with you know and up [TS]

00:11:40 ◼   ► until this point [TS]

00:11:42 ◼   ► Merlin up until this point we have never [TS]

00:11:44 ◼   ► spoken about we've never spoken with [TS]

00:11:46 ◼   ► pride about the lack of work that we put [TS]

00:11:48 ◼   ► into this podcast i think a lot of [TS]

00:11:50 ◼   ► people think you're supposed to be [TS]

00:11:52 ◼   ► ashamed of not working [TS]

00:11:54 ◼   ► boy you should listen to my speech I [TS]

00:11:56 ◼   ► gave it XOXO this year [TS]

00:11:58 ◼   ► oh yeah that's right so that all right [TS]

00:12:01 ◼   ► oh yes yes so there's the podcast CD [TS]

00:12:03 ◼   ► with me that you don't listen to write [TS]

00:12:05 ◼   ► that you are you felt bad you thought it [TS]

00:12:08 ◼   ► was I think your phrase we were [TS]

00:12:09 ◼   ► illegitimate it was jimit legitimate all [TS]

00:12:13 ◼   ► the work that I do that is the best is [TS]

00:12:16 ◼   ► also work that I feel is legitimate but [TS]

00:12:17 ◼   ► that's a whole other everybody should go [TS]

00:12:20 ◼   ► I don't know if that speech is even [TS]

00:12:21 ◼   ► online yet it is it online I haven't [TS]

00:12:24 ◼   ► checked it ok i'll look that up [TS]

00:12:28 ◼   ► no it's not that you have to check it [TS]

00:12:29 ◼   ► would just come down your timeline right [TS]

00:12:31 ◼   ► it would just end up in your feet at the [TS]

00:12:32 ◼   ► MIT our primary TL yeah yeah on your [TS]

00:12:35 ◼   ► feet [TS]

00:12:35 ◼   ► I see I i enjoy unlike I think I'm like [TS]

00:12:40 ◼   ► you you seem like you don't really [TS]

00:12:41 ◼   ► listen to podcast at all do you [TS]

00:12:42 ◼   ► I mean less unless it's something but [TS]

00:12:44 ◼   ► for a reason it's not part of your [TS]

00:12:46 ◼   ► workflow you're not a big podcast person [TS]

00:12:47 ◼   ► for the most part until well let's see [TS]

00:12:51 ◼   ► let me think about this now for a second [TS]

00:12:53 ◼   ► if I can still say this i believe i can [TS]

00:12:58 ◼   ► still say that I have never heard a [TS]

00:13:01 ◼   ► podcast ok i listened to our an [TS]

00:13:05 ◼   ► irresponsible number of podcasts that [TS]

00:13:07 ◼   ► are often very very different types and [TS]

00:13:10 ◼   ► kinds of podcasts where I mean [TS]

00:13:14 ◼   ► especially with this particular I don't [TS]

00:13:16 ◼   ► talk about politics but with this [TS]

00:13:17 ◼   ► particular season i have adopted [TS]

00:13:18 ◼   ► half-a-dozen really good luck [TS]

00:13:21 ◼   ► cast about politics that our second ago [TS]

00:13:23 ◼   ► I'm sorry to interrupt now everything [TS]

00:13:26 ◼   ► that's on the show is on the show and [TS]

00:13:28 ◼   ► secondly when you said types and pop [TS]

00:13:30 ◼   ► kinds of podcast was that a sort of [TS]

00:13:32 ◼   ► insider podcast way of saying that some [TS]

00:13:35 ◼   ► kinda haha like you know me feel like [TS]

00:13:38 ◼   ► I'm gonna let you wonder it's like types [TS]

00:13:40 ◼   ► and island types and kinds of podcast [TS]

00:13:42 ◼   ► but I also let's do thai it's like [TS]

00:13:44 ◼   ► saying things like fam like you just [TS]

00:13:46 ◼   ► assume that somebody's vernacular that [TS]

00:13:48 ◼   ► must mean something [TS]

00:13:49 ◼   ► damn they say fam and then other people [TS]

00:13:51 ◼   ► safe and because they heard other people [TS]

00:13:52 ◼   ► say fam earlier this day when when i [TS]

00:13:55 ◼   ► wrote you earlier this day that's good [TS]

00:13:58 ◼   ► right that's my daughter just a moment [TS]

00:14:00 ◼   ► just a moment earlier this day when are [TS]

00:14:04 ◼   ► we going to eat this day earlier this [TS]

00:14:07 ◼   ► day when i wrote you a text and I said [TS]

00:14:09 ◼   ► can we start recording a half an hour [TS]

00:14:12 ◼   ► later than we normally do and you said [TS]

00:14:14 ◼   ► yes [TS]

00:14:15 ◼   ► what did I right back you said too many [TS]

00:14:20 ◼   ► things one of them was TTYL which I [TS]

00:14:23 ◼   ► think well I taught your you i'm sorry [TS]

00:14:25 ◼   ► you taught me that [TS]

00:14:27 ◼   ► TTYL you had to go to urban dictionary [TS]

00:14:29 ◼   ► to figure out what you're saying be [TS]

00:14:30 ◼   ► careful on that site content was the [TS]

00:14:33 ◼   ► other one wasn't like i said there's a [TS]

00:14:35 ◼   ► bazillion or something what did you say [TS]

00:14:36 ◼   ► I said perfect perfect ! a thing which [TS]

00:14:41 ◼   ► as i did it i realized i had never done [TS]

00:14:43 ◼   ► that's not part of my electron eyeliner [TS]

00:14:45 ◼   ► it [TS]

00:14:45 ◼   ► oh I like that i sometimes respond [TS]

00:14:48 ◼   ► sometimes with my with my wife and me [TS]

00:14:50 ◼   ► and I a starting with other people got [TS]

00:14:51 ◼   ► very confused i would adopt 00 [TS]

00:14:54 ◼   ► pronunciation of the great Richard vase [TS]

00:14:56 ◼   ► from the first scene in the office which [TS]

00:14:58 ◼   ► is same ethnic perfect i was a perfect [TS]

00:15:01 ◼   ► perfect that doesn't mean anything [TS]

00:15:03 ◼   ► anybody but my wife and me if I see [TS]

00:15:04 ◼   ► perfect [TS]

00:15:05 ◼   ► nobody's gonna know what that means i [TS]

00:15:06 ◼   ► don't think that's a bit but i like i [TS]

00:15:08 ◼   ► like i like your I liked your neologism [TS]

00:15:11 ◼   ► perfect perfect i will max out [TS]

00:15:14 ◼   ► pronounced right it's not perfect so I'm [TS]

00:15:16 ◼   ► trying to say is I wanna get back to [TS]

00:15:17 ◼   ► these pancakes years [TS]

00:15:19 ◼   ► all I'm trying to say is everything that [TS]

00:15:20 ◼   ► happens on the show happens on the show [TS]

00:15:22 ◼   ► and and and Miley point being that I [TS]

00:15:24 ◼   ► don't understand this is what Freud [TS]

00:15:27 ◼   ► calls narcissism of minor differences [TS]

00:15:29 ◼   ► don't understand why there has to be so [TS]

00:15:33 ◼   ► much hue and cry Sturm and Drang about [TS]

00:15:36 ◼   ► all of the people who are doing [TS]

00:15:37 ◼   ► everything wrong because they're not [TS]

00:15:39 ◼   ► doing it like you I mean my god I first [TS]

00:15:43 ◼   ► of all have saved a lot of the podcast i [TS]

00:15:44 ◼   ► hold dearest in my heart are similar to [TS]

00:15:48 ◼   ► our show are not high production value [TS]

00:15:51 ◼   ► things i'm here because i love the [TS]

00:15:53 ◼   ► people is that there's a program that a [TS]

00:15:55 ◼   ► lot of our listeners also listen to that [TS]

00:15:56 ◼   ► I will not mention my name to very very [TS]

00:15:58 ◼   ► funny podcast that's not a comedy [TS]

00:16:00 ◼   ► podcast cuz I don't like comedy podcast [TS]

00:16:02 ◼   ► but Adam Carolla his pancakes are not on [TS]

00:16:08 ◼   ► my plate and it's it's kind of a running [TS]

00:16:13 ◼   ► joke that like they've been doing the [TS]

00:16:14 ◼   ► show for almost 10 years and i still [TS]

00:16:15 ◼   ► can't quite get the audio quality where [TS]

00:16:17 ◼   ► they like it to be but you listen to it [TS]

00:16:19 ◼   ► because because about Marco our Moon's [TS]

00:16:21 ◼   ► cocinar Marco Arment now he's got notes [TS]

00:16:23 ◼   ► for us [TS]

00:16:24 ◼   ► I'm not specifically because I I don't [TS]

00:16:26 ◼   ► know if you still listen to the program [TS]

00:16:27 ◼   ► because you blocked him [TS]

00:16:29 ◼   ► no no I love Marco I'm but the but he is [TS]

00:16:32 ◼   ► a really he's very into audio quality i [TS]

00:16:36 ◼   ► don't know if you're aware of this [TS]

00:16:38 ◼   ► mm so like for example and and work this [TS]

00:16:41 ◼   ► isn't the show yet so we're going to cut [TS]

00:16:42 ◼   ► all this out audio quality the yeah cuz [TS]

00:16:45 ◼   ► I mean we do eventually need to teach [TS]

00:16:47 ◼   ► you how to record your side that got our [TS]

00:16:49 ◼   ► money you know [TS]

00:16:50 ◼   ► no i'm not making this about you I make [TS]

00:16:51 ◼   ► this about the industry penis about the [TS]

00:16:54 ◼   ► privilege that people don't realize they [TS]

00:16:56 ◼   ► have having editing skills but here i [TS]

00:16:59 ◼   ► just don't know I i don't i'm sounding [TS]

00:17:02 ◼   ► more dramatic about this I actually feel [TS]

00:17:04 ◼   ► I actually feeling is more like this [TS]

00:17:05 ◼   ► noise [TS]

00:17:06 ◼   ► poof-poof because it's like well can't [TS]

00:17:09 ◼   ► you just can't there be different kinds [TS]

00:17:11 ◼   ► of things we all just get along can't we [TS]

00:17:13 ◼   ► all just can't we all just get along and [TS]

00:17:15 ◼   ► I guess what I'm trying to say is that [TS]

00:17:16 ◼   ► like its it would be very weird to me [TS]

00:17:19 ◼   ► for somebody who claims that they're [TS]

00:17:21 ◼   ► really into podcast to only listen to [TS]

00:17:23 ◼   ► really highly produced radio style shows [TS]

00:17:27 ◼   ► because that's not what I consider a [TS]

00:17:31 ◼   ► classic podcast I don't think reading a [TS]

00:17:33 ◼   ► very well written essay / music bed is a [TS]

00:17:35 ◼   ► podcast either i listen to shows like [TS]

00:17:37 ◼   ► that i consider a classic podcast to be [TS]

00:17:39 ◼   ► it spur of the moment talking between [TS]

00:17:42 ◼   ► people about whatever [TS]

00:17:43 ◼   ► see now that's a classic podcast well I [TS]

00:17:46 ◼   ► I don't know but I mean like I mean then [TS]

00:17:48 ◼   ► you take something like you know another [TS]

00:17:50 ◼   ► program i used to do with this cotton [TS]

00:17:52 ◼   ► Adam and that was edited within an inch [TS]

00:17:54 ◼   ► of its life too much great effect right [TS]

00:17:56 ◼   ► and that's why you don't do it anymore [TS]

00:17:57 ◼   ► that got time consuming [TS]

00:18:00 ◼   ► yeah my sense is that if we had if we [TS]

00:18:02 ◼   ► had made any attempt to edit this [TS]

00:18:04 ◼   ► podcast or do anything to it at all and [TS]

00:18:08 ◼   ► I don't know what the other things you [TS]

00:18:09 ◼   ► can do a podcast are besides edit it but [TS]

00:18:12 ◼   ► i think that there must be some things [TS]

00:18:14 ◼   ► that you could do you could run through [TS]

00:18:16 ◼   ► a filter you could run this entire [TS]

00:18:17 ◼   ► podcast through a flanger even we could [TS]

00:18:22 ◼   ► go to be talking into vocoders where [TS]

00:18:24 ◼   ► it's turned way up there or a Maryland [TS]

00:18:28 ◼   ► how are you [TS]

00:18:29 ◼   ► I just add a flanger to just that little [TS]

00:18:32 ◼   ► bit because I i think i can do that but [TS]

00:18:35 ◼   ► i'm not sure cuz im using a ten-year-old [TS]

00:18:36 ◼   ► program to go go just running through to [TS]

00:18:39 ◼   ► run through a flanger said it you said [TS]

00:18:41 ◼   ► it from your mouth to Rodney King's here [TS]

00:18:43 ◼   ► why can't we all just get along can't we [TS]

00:18:45 ◼   ► just let people like the things that [TS]

00:18:47 ◼   ► they like does it doesn't have to turn [TS]

00:18:49 ◼   ► into some kind of land war in Asia just [TS]

00:18:52 ◼   ► because people do things differently [TS]

00:18:54 ◼   ► it's so odd [TS]

00:18:55 ◼   ► my sense of this conversation is that [TS]

00:18:59 ◼   ► you have so first of all do you believe [TS]

00:19:02 ◼   ► me when i say i've never listened to a [TS]

00:19:03 ◼   ► podcast [TS]

00:19:04 ◼   ► no I see I think I would be very [TS]

00:19:07 ◼   ► surprised i don't know i'm done you act [TS]

00:19:09 ◼   ► but you asked me from ok everything on [TS]

00:19:12 ◼   ► the show is on the show that's right i [TS]

00:19:13 ◼   ► would be very surprised if you had not [TS]

00:19:15 ◼   ► listen to almost all of the song explode [TS]

00:19:19 ◼   ► episode about the commander thinks aloud [TS]

00:19:21 ◼   ► you're right i have listened to a [TS]

00:19:23 ◼   ► podcast because I listened to that one [TS]

00:19:25 ◼   ► time [TS]

00:19:26 ◼   ► Wow boom boom it's true I i was [TS]

00:19:31 ◼   ► listening so here's here's my problem [TS]

00:19:34 ◼   ► which is that this is the only problem I [TS]

00:19:37 ◼   ► alright it's amazing that somebody that [TS]

00:19:41 ◼   ► has only one problem and is able to [TS]

00:19:42 ◼   ► identify that puts you that the US air [TS]

00:19:44 ◼   ► it's a pretty rare my friend [TS]

00:19:46 ◼   ► well as my mom likes to believe people [TS]

00:19:49 ◼   ► are on earth living iterations of their [TS]

00:19:53 ◼   ► former lives based on how they performed [TS]

00:19:56 ◼   ► in earlier are you your mom believes [TS]

00:19:59 ◼   ► that yes so so exciting to me as you [TS]

00:20:03 ◼   ► progress through the through the ladder [TS]

00:20:06 ◼   ► of enlightenment you are here on this [TS]

00:20:09 ◼   ► planet living a life in order to learn [TS]

00:20:12 ◼   ► things that you did not learn earlier [TS]

00:20:15 ◼   ► but also with the presumption is that [TS]

00:20:18 ◼   ► you are advancing so there are there are [TS]

00:20:22 ◼   ► people who are here and they've they've [TS]

00:20:25 ◼   ► been bumped up from being a dog or [TS]

00:20:27 ◼   ► whatever there-there humans but they're [TS]

00:20:30 ◼   ► really at the beginning of the ladder [TS]

00:20:32 ◼   ► and then there are old souls who are at [TS]

00:20:35 ◼   ► the you know they're really up there [TS]

00:20:37 ◼   ► with very few things to learn left but [TS]

00:20:41 ◼   ► the things they do have to learn boy [TS]

00:20:43 ◼   ► they really i mean that's a whole [TS]

00:20:45 ◼   ► lifetime just in the pursuit of learning [TS]

00:20:49 ◼   ► this thing and then at a certain point [TS]

00:20:50 ◼   ► you know youryour you reach Valhalla [TS]

00:20:53 ◼   ► holy mackerel andy so the one thing that [TS]

00:20:59 ◼   ► I have that's true about me let's say [TS]

00:21:02 ◼   ► that is that I like to read reviews I [TS]

00:21:06 ◼   ► like to read reviews more than I like to [TS]

00:21:10 ◼   ► consume any of the things being reviewed [TS]

00:21:12 ◼   ► is the bet you'd make this something [TS]

00:21:15 ◼   ► separate from criticism in the second [TS]

00:21:19 ◼   ► that in the in the classic kind of [TS]

00:21:20 ◼   ► academic sense i like to read criticism [TS]

00:21:22 ◼   ► your you your OneNote let me I'm sorry [TS]

00:21:25 ◼   ► to interrupt you but day you studied it [TS]

00:21:28 ◼   ► wasn't comparative literature it was the [TS]

00:21:30 ◼   ► history of ideas now what was it [TS]

00:21:31 ◼   ► that's right come the comparative [TS]

00:21:33 ◼   ► history of ideas [TS]

00:21:35 ◼   ► I don't like a conflict with a master's [TS]

00:21:36 ◼   ► degree I mean it's a lot of like [TS]

00:21:38 ◼   ► thinking about things in the app [TS]

00:21:39 ◼   ► tracked you think about the thinking [TS]

00:21:41 ◼   ► about things who metacognition mm and so [TS]

00:21:46 ◼   ► reviews have always been a big part of [TS]

00:21:49 ◼   ► my so there's criticism but there's also [TS]

00:21:51 ◼   ► just the its younger its younger sibling [TS]

00:21:53 ◼   ► the jolly little review which and review [TS]

00:21:59 ◼   ► is a very uncomplicated child depending [TS]

00:22:02 ◼   ► on how well it's written but i enjoy [TS]

00:22:06 ◼   ► and-and-and-and mad magazine was an [TS]

00:22:08 ◼   ► early a purveyor of this to me i never [TS]

00:22:12 ◼   ► saw the movie Kramer vs Kramer but I [TS]

00:22:14 ◼   ► remember mad magazines parody of kramer [TS]

00:22:17 ◼   ► vs kramer very well humor was called oh [TS]

00:22:20 ◼   ► boy [TS]

00:22:21 ◼   ► slacker vs address for this episode of [TS]

00:22:28 ◼   ► Roderick on the line is brought to you [TS]

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00:23:06 ◼   ► years and I loved it the best it has [TS]

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00:23:28 ◼   ► understand why Casper's out there why [TS]

00:23:30 ◼   ► they exist you have to look at how the [TS]

00:23:31 ◼   ► mattress racket works in the past the [TS]

00:23:34 ◼   ► mattress industry wanted you go out [TS]

00:23:36 ◼   ► there and pay high prices by going into [TS]

00:23:38 ◼   ► the showrooms were some guy in a time is [TS]

00:23:40 ◼   ► all sweaty once you lay on a bed in [TS]

00:23:42 ◼   ► front of him like what's up with that [TS]

00:23:43 ◼   ► nobody wants that don't do that don't do [TS]

00:23:45 ◼   ► that don't talk the land that man's bed [TS]

00:23:46 ◼   ► is disgusting revolutionising this [TS]

00:23:48 ◼   ► industry revolutionising by cutting the [TS]

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00:23:55 ◼   ► understand Casper these are some smart [TS]

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00:24:00 ◼   ► when I first started I thought it was [TS]

00:24:02 ◼   ► crazy but buying casper mattresses [TS]

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00:24:13 ◼   ► with the tie in your room unless you've [TS]

00:24:15 ◼   ► asked him there [TS]

00:24:17 ◼   ► terms and conditions apply let's be [TS]

00:24:19 ◼   ► honest not about four minutes in a [TS]

00:24:20 ◼   ► showroom has no way to tell you if [TS]

00:24:22 ◼   ► that's how you want to spend a third of [TS]

00:24:23 ◼   ► your life you've got to try this out [TS]

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00:24:50 ◼   ► our thanks to Casper for all the great [TS]

00:24:51 ◼   ► night's sleep and for supporting [TS]

00:24:52 ◼   ► Roderick online black versus lap and and [TS]

00:24:59 ◼   ► so you know very early on I realized [TS]

00:25:01 ◼   ► that you could get the gist of something [TS]

00:25:03 ◼   ► by reading the capsule review of it and [TS]

00:25:06 ◼   ► that when used then saw the thing it [TS]

00:25:09 ◼   ► either confirmed or exploded the review [TS]

00:25:13 ◼   ► but that even didn't matter like it even [TS]

00:25:16 ◼   ► a bad review i loved i love to read [TS]

00:25:20 ◼   ► there was a there was a magazine [TS]

00:25:21 ◼   ► published in the Pacific Northwest and [TS]

00:25:23 ◼   ► by magazine I mean broadsheet like an [TS]

00:25:27 ◼   ► alternative paper i don't know if you [TS]

00:25:29 ◼   ► remember this but it was called snipe [TS]

00:25:31 ◼   ► hunt and snipe hunt was just an entire [TS]

00:25:35 ◼   ► newspaper like as big as the SF Weekly [TS]

00:25:38 ◼   ► but all it was was capsule reviews of [TS]

00:25:41 ◼   ► new records by by indie bands [TS]

00:25:43 ◼   ► oh the entire thing and the reviews none [TS]

00:25:47 ◼   ► of them were more than about three [TS]

00:25:48 ◼   ► column enters and every single record [TS]

00:25:52 ◼   ► was reviewed by Snider bonds and I never [TS]

00:25:55 ◼   ► have never known [TS]

00:25:57 ◼   ► like who the snipe on people were or how [TS]

00:25:59 ◼   ► it was that this thing existed but it [TS]

00:26:02 ◼   ► was just like a free paper that you [TS]

00:26:03 ◼   ► would find lying around in bars [TS]

00:26:05 ◼   ► and whenever I saw and it came out [TS]

00:26:07 ◼   ► quarterly or something it wasn't [TS]

00:26:08 ◼   ► something they could do every week but i [TS]

00:26:11 ◼   ► would grab snipe hunt and I would just [TS]

00:26:13 ◼   ► at first I would go through and i would [TS]

00:26:15 ◼   ► read every one star review because [TS]

00:26:17 ◼   ► that's what you really want you want [TS]

00:26:19 ◼   ► every one star review first and then i [TS]

00:26:21 ◼   ► would read every five star review and [TS]

00:26:23 ◼   ► then I would you know God go through [TS]

00:26:24 ◼   ► eventually i'd read every review because [TS]

00:26:26 ◼   ► it was so great and I had no intention [TS]

00:26:28 ◼   ► of listening to any of those albums not [TS]

00:26:30 ◼   ► even a single one not not even the [TS]

00:26:32 ◼   ► five-star five-star review you know what [TS]

00:26:35 ◼   ► I get this i totally get this and so [TS]

00:26:38 ◼   ► listening to you talk about podcasts is [TS]

00:26:42 ◼   ► in a lot of ways better than listening [TS]

00:26:45 ◼   ► to podcast yes sir [TS]

00:26:47 ◼   ► who knows i'll never let me go song the [TS]

00:26:50 ◼   ► song exploded that featured me I finally [TS]

00:26:55 ◼   ► listen to after you know after being on [TS]

00:26:58 ◼   ► the receiving end of 400 tweets that [TS]

00:27:00 ◼   ► were like this is great i listened to it [TS]

00:27:03 ◼   ► and it actually i actually was like huh [TS]

00:27:05 ◼   ► this was a nice thing this song exploder [TS]

00:27:09 ◼   ► that people praised was really nice it [TS]

00:27:13 ◼   ► was nice to listen to it made me feel [TS]

00:27:15 ◼   ► emotional about my own song because of [TS]

00:27:18 ◼   ► the weather was craft that show that guy [TS]

00:27:20 ◼   ► like he's so wonderful i can never not [TS]

00:27:22 ◼   ► going to begin to try to pronounce his [TS]

00:27:23 ◼   ► name but he prefers to go by reaching ok [TS]

00:27:28 ◼   ► he he's very good and His that's it [TS]

00:27:32 ◼   ► that's interesting you should mention [TS]

00:27:33 ◼   ► that example because i often have no [TS]

00:27:36 ◼   ► idea who the artist or the song is but [TS]

00:27:39 ◼   ► like um like MGMT you know that one that [TS]

00:27:42 ◼   ► big hit they had back when MGMT had the [TS]

00:27:43 ◼   ► first big hit like the breaking down how [TS]

00:27:46 ◼   ► that song it's that one song you know [TS]

00:27:47 ◼   ► how it goes and but ask [TS]

00:27:50 ◼   ► yeah it's the one and so you a whole [TS]

00:27:54 ◼   ► blue [TS]

00:27:55 ◼   ► oh but no that doesn't example the show [TS]

00:28:00 ◼   ► were like even if i don't know or I'm [TS]

00:28:03 ◼   ► not into the song I i really liked the [TS]

00:28:06 ◼   ► format for how it doesn't it's very [TS]

00:28:08 ◼   ► solemn maybe a little too solemn but the [TS]

00:28:10 ◼   ► the way he puts that show together is [TS]

00:28:13 ◼   ► terrific now that's an example of a very [TS]

00:28:14 ◼   ► heavily edited show that i think is very [TS]

00:28:16 ◼   ► well done [TS]

00:28:16 ◼   ► he does a very good job [TS]

00:28:18 ◼   ► I anybody's it doesn't hurt at all that [TS]

00:28:20 ◼   ► it's one of your best known and [TS]

00:28:23 ◼   ► certainly one of the most moving songs [TS]

00:28:25 ◼   ► and the storytelling stage was just the [TS]

00:28:27 ◼   ► way you tell it was great [TS]

00:28:29 ◼   ► yeah yeah well it was nice that it was [TS]

00:28:30 ◼   ► in front of a live audience but I so i [TS]

00:28:33 ◼   ► have this I have this terrible [TS]

00:28:35 ◼   ► experience the other day which was a [TS]

00:28:39 ◼   ► recapitulation of a terrible series of [TS]

00:28:41 ◼   ► experiences i've had over the decades [TS]

00:28:43 ◼   ► questions follow-up did we cover the one [TS]

00:28:46 ◼   ► thing that II you don't do well that you [TS]

00:28:49 ◼   ► know that you like reviews better than [TS]

00:28:51 ◼   ► things well 60 here we're about to work [TS]

00:28:54 ◼   ► sorry I came to another room of it [TS]

00:28:55 ◼   ► because this is what I have to learn in [TS]

00:28:57 ◼   ► this life because my mother has never [TS]

00:29:00 ◼   ► called me an old soul [TS]

00:29:02 ◼   ► she'll talk about you know we'll talk [TS]

00:29:03 ◼   ► about kids that she met his old souls [TS]

00:29:05 ◼   ► but you know I stand there with my with [TS]

00:29:08 ◼   ► my hands in my lap waiting for her to to [TS]

00:29:12 ◼   ► bless me with old sold them and she [TS]

00:29:15 ◼   ► never does she passes over me she passes [TS]

00:29:18 ◼   ► over me like the angel of death because [TS]

00:29:20 ◼   ► apparently there's some others blood [TS]

00:29:22 ◼   ► splotch on my door but uh but it but [TS]

00:29:27 ◼   ► opposite right she's not she's not [TS]

00:29:29 ◼   ► preserving me I think she's throwing me [TS]

00:29:31 ◼   ► back into the pond because he thinks I [TS]

00:29:34 ◼   ► have other things to learn than what i [TS]

00:29:36 ◼   ► think i have to learn in some subsequent [TS]

00:29:38 ◼   ► life but uh but i don't know maybe at [TS]

00:29:42 ◼   ► some point chill chill chill bump me up [TS]

00:29:44 ◼   ► a few notches in her estimation but she [TS]

00:29:47 ◼   ► has decided once again that she's [TS]

00:29:50 ◼   ► clearing out her house my mom and I have [TS]

00:29:52 ◼   ► very different ideas about how much [TS]

00:29:54 ◼   ► stuff should be in a house and my [TS]

00:29:57 ◼   ► version of how much stuff should be in [TS]

00:29:59 ◼   ► houses as much stuff as the house can [TS]

00:30:01 ◼   ► contain who and her version is the [TS]

00:30:04 ◼   ► opposite right as little stuff as a [TS]

00:30:06 ◼   ► house can contain if you walk into a [TS]

00:30:08 ◼   ► room it should have a couch in it or it [TS]

00:30:10 ◼   ► should have something to justify itself [TS]

00:30:13 ◼   ► the room should announce what its [TS]

00:30:16 ◼   ► purposes and it should justify itself by [TS]

00:30:18 ◼   ► by its contents but as a few contents as [TS]

00:30:22 ◼   ► possible [TS]

00:30:24 ◼   ► and so she decided that she was going [TS]

00:30:27 ◼   ► now to go into the basement which is a [TS]

00:30:30 ◼   ► space that I think should be an archive [TS]

00:30:34 ◼   ► and she was ready to get rid of stuff [TS]

00:30:37 ◼   ► and so I i came into her house i sat [TS]

00:30:40 ◼   ► down on the on the on the the knockdown [TS]

00:30:43 ◼   ► chair that we've had since I was in high [TS]

00:30:45 ◼   ► school [TS]

00:30:46 ◼   ► hey what's up and she said oh I'm glad [TS]

00:30:47 ◼   ► you're here and then she goes into the [TS]

00:30:49 ◼   ► room and she plops a bin ab in from a [TS]

00:30:53 ◼   ► bin store the plastic bin full of cds [TS]

00:30:57 ◼   ► and she says I want you to go through [TS]

00:30:58 ◼   ► this and I go boy [TS]

00:31:01 ◼   ► what is this about and she said I'm [TS]

00:31:03 ◼   ► getting rid of all these cds and I want [TS]

00:31:06 ◼   ► you to go through and take the ones out [TS]

00:31:07 ◼   ► that you want like Tom these cds belong [TS]

00:31:11 ◼   ► in the basement that's not necessary [TS]

00:31:13 ◼   ► that you go through these and if you are [TS]

00:31:15 ◼   ► going to go through them you should go [TS]

00:31:16 ◼   ► through them when you're 85 years old [TS]

00:31:17 ◼   ► but alright i'll go through these cds [TS]

00:31:20 ◼   ► and the bin just contain CDs that start [TS]

00:31:22 ◼   ► with a and B they're not it's just like [TS]

00:31:24 ◼   ► the beginning of this enormous [TS]

00:31:26 ◼   ► collection of CDs cowboy and so I start [TS]

00:31:29 ◼   ► going through them and I realized that I [TS]

00:31:32 ◼   ► have a collection it contained within [TS]

00:31:35 ◼   ► these cds of every album released [TS]

00:31:38 ◼   ► between 1998 and 2007 like every single [TS]

00:31:43 ◼   ► one that you get gates you you get down [TS]

00:31:45 ◼   ► what's the word on comps but a [TS]

00:31:47 ◼   ► pre-release you know [TS]

00:31:49 ◼   ► yeah kinda stuff right and and some of [TS]

00:31:53 ◼   ► them are some of them are very unique [TS]

00:31:57 ◼   ► like the first band of horses album i [TS]

00:31:59 ◼   ► have the demos of when the band was [TS]

00:32:02 ◼   ► still called horses and ben bridwell [TS]

00:32:05 ◼   ► said hey I want you to listen to the [TS]

00:32:07 ◼   ► demo of my new band the songs that I'm [TS]

00:32:10 ◼   ► working on and it is all the songs of [TS]

00:32:13 ◼   ► the first band of horses record with him [TS]

00:32:15 ◼   ► scatting over them it's the same exact [TS]

00:32:18 ◼   ► melodies of the tunes mom but he did [TS]

00:32:21 ◼   ► have the lyrics yet so it's like you [TS]

00:32:23 ◼   ► know seven never dabbled a bit too [TS]

00:32:27 ◼   ► badoo badoo know that song he had the [TS]

00:32:29 ◼   ► layer he had at least 100 but you know [TS]

00:32:33 ◼   ► there's a lot of scouting on it and he [TS]

00:32:35 ◼   ► was a guy that was onion bear [TS]

00:32:37 ◼   ► just about have a hanging about handing [TS]

00:32:41 ◼   ► his best friend I mean people he knows [TS]

00:32:44 ◼   ► this CD like with scouting on it because [TS]

00:32:47 ◼   ► he was so proud of it already [TS]

00:32:48 ◼   ► like I have documents that are better [TS]

00:32:51 ◼   ► very very interesting of lots of bands [TS]

00:32:54 ◼   ► that sent me early copies that I ever [TS]

00:32:57 ◼   ► tell you about the time i was i was [TS]

00:32:59 ◼   ► there i was i played a show in montreal [TS]

00:33:01 ◼   ► and and these kids came up after the [TS]

00:33:05 ◼   ► show and they handed me their their CD [TS]

00:33:08 ◼   ► right right and then they became the [TS]

00:33:12 ◼   ► band that wave the wave their flags and [TS]

00:33:14 ◼   ► played the typewriter that's right they [TS]

00:33:15 ◼   ► had drumsticks on the helmet that's [TS]

00:33:17 ◼   ► right drumsticks on now [TS]

00:33:18 ◼   ► ok some other ones were the thinking [TS]

00:33:22 ◼   ► when they came back wah john they were [TS]

00:33:24 ◼   ► yeah there were some of them are typical [TS]

00:33:25 ◼   ► huh [TS]

00:33:26 ◼   ► they spoke with the adorable from [TS]

00:33:28 ◼   ► Jackson's they were young kids at the [TS]

00:33:30 ◼   ► time and they were like with you know we [TS]

00:33:31 ◼   ► want you to hear this we love your show [TS]

00:33:32 ◼   ► we want you to hear this demo and then I [TS]

00:33:34 ◼   ► became like a very big very big band so [TS]

00:33:37 ◼   ► I have a lot of things like that in [TS]

00:33:40 ◼   ► addition to every every release all of [TS]

00:33:43 ◼   ► them you know cut out since them and my [TS]

00:33:45 ◼   ► mom pops this bin down in front of me [TS]

00:33:47 ◼   ► and I realize and then she starts [TS]

00:33:50 ◼   ► talking about them talking about the [TS]

00:33:52 ◼   ► record and I realized that she has [TS]

00:33:54 ◼   ► listened to all of these albums she's [TS]

00:33:58 ◼   ► gone through what [TS]

00:33:59 ◼   ► listen to them put them into her itunes [TS]

00:34:03 ◼   ► put the CD into her computer loaded into [TS]

00:34:07 ◼   ► our itunes put the song on her ipod mini [TS]

00:34:12 ◼   ► and you can listen to it at least once [TS]

00:34:17 ◼   ► and then she wrote a review of it on a [TS]

00:34:21 ◼   ► post-it note and stuck the review to the [TS]

00:34:25 ◼   ► CD and the reviews are often like tunis [TS]

00:34:29 ◼   ► yell p soft rock you think she was doing [TS]

00:34:35 ◼   ► it to jog her memory or to just be have [TS]

00:34:38 ◼   ► some closure with that particular item [TS]

00:34:40 ◼   ► yeah i think it was a little ways that [TS]

00:34:42 ◼   ► note for that's a good question i think [TS]

00:34:44 ◼   ► ultimately it was for me because again [TS]

00:34:48 ◼   ► my mom doesn't she [TS]

00:34:50 ◼   ► they're the same consumptive habits that [TS]

00:34:54 ◼   ► i do and she was trying to make it [TS]

00:34:56 ◼   ► easier for me to listen to this music [TS]

00:34:59 ◼   ► and if it was tuneless yell p soft rock [TS]

00:35:03 ◼   ► she put that on their kind of to save me [TS]

00:35:06 ◼   ► the trouble but the problem is that [TS]

00:35:08 ◼   ► tuneless yell p soft rock maybe at would [TS]

00:35:12 ◼   ► be something that I would think is good [TS]

00:35:13 ◼   ► because she has different taste tonight [TS]

00:35:15 ◼   ► sure and so but the primary difference [TS]

00:35:18 ◼   ► is that i'm never gonna listen to those [TS]

00:35:20 ◼   ► records i have listened to like four [TS]

00:35:24 ◼   ► percent of the records that are in this [TS]

00:35:26 ◼   ► bin and mostly it is the four percent of [TS]

00:35:30 ◼   ► I mean it's bad it's almost that I've [TS]

00:35:32 ◼   ► heard the songs of four percent of these [TS]

00:35:35 ◼   ► bands because the ones that I've heard [TS]

00:35:37 ◼   ► are ones that have toured with or seen [TS]

00:35:39 ◼   ► live [TS]

00:35:40 ◼   ► I i hardly ever put a CD in a machine to [TS]

00:35:44 ◼   ► listen to it or listen to a man mp3 now [TS]

00:35:47 ◼   ► so I'm going through this and I'm seeing [TS]

00:35:49 ◼   ► that i actually had an enormous slice of [TS]

00:35:55 ◼   ► the culture that I was actually a part [TS]

00:35:58 ◼   ► of I had not just access but ownership [TS]

00:36:01 ◼   ► of this this wall of cds or groom of CJ [TS]

00:36:06 ◼   ► your witness to history [TS]

00:36:07 ◼   ► I i have a possessor of history i have [TS]

00:36:10 ◼   ► the amber the hair with amber eyes here [TS]

00:36:13 ◼   ► and I did not consume it and now it [TS]

00:36:20 ◼   ► feels like too late to consume it i'm [TS]

00:36:23 ◼   ► playing cds and I'm like I remember this [TS]

00:36:25 ◼   ► band [TS]

00:36:26 ◼   ► this was the band you know this was this [TS]

00:36:29 ◼   ► band from modesto that one of the [TS]

00:36:31 ◼   ► members was you know formerly dated the [TS]

00:36:34 ◼   ► younger brother of one of the members [TS]

00:36:36 ◼   ► one of the later members of grandaddy or [TS]

00:36:40 ◼   ► whatever this was the guy that that this [TS]

00:36:42 ◼   ► was the CD of the bartender at the [TS]

00:36:44 ◼   ► mercury lounge and I'm going through and [TS]

00:36:47 ◼   ► I'm just like well the only ones of [TS]

00:36:48 ◼   ► these that i want to keep frankly are [TS]

00:36:50 ◼   ► like everyone so while you pull out on [TS]

00:36:52 ◼   ► Sam Cooke record you like I could keep [TS]

00:36:54 ◼   ► this sam cooke record [TS]

00:36:56 ◼   ► you know the greatest hits of lynyrd [TS]

00:36:58 ◼   ► skynyrd gotta get going to keep gold and [TS]

00:37:00 ◼   ► platinum and i sent the rest into you [TS]

00:37:05 ◼   ► know into the river because my moms [TS]

00:37:06 ◼   ► cleaning it out i don't want to bring [TS]

00:37:08 ◼   ► these things home to my house I know I'm [TS]

00:37:10 ◼   ► never going to listen to them is really [TS]

00:37:11 ◼   ► and I'm i stand amazed you pull this off [TS]

00:37:15 ◼   ► baby you're amazed maybe i'm amazed with [TS]

00:37:17 ◼   ► the way you got rid of those cds all the [TS]

00:37:19 ◼   ► time [TS]

00:37:20 ◼   ► well ends and so but I was sitting there [TS]

00:37:23 ◼   ► a little bit covered in shame my 82 [TS]

00:37:26 ◼   ► year-old mother had a better sense of [TS]

00:37:28 ◼   ► what a much better sense of what indie [TS]

00:37:31 ◼   ► rock in 2001 was then I but as far as [TS]

00:37:37 ◼   ► the recorded output of it than I ever [TS]

00:37:39 ◼   ► would and she listened to all the demos [TS]

00:37:41 ◼   ► everything that came across my bow she [TS]

00:37:45 ◼   ► took because she was looking she was [TS]

00:37:47 ◼   ► curious and she was looking to develop [TS]

00:37:49 ◼   ► her musical tastes and she wanted to [TS]

00:37:52 ◼   ► know what was happening in the in the [TS]

00:37:54 ◼   ► indie rock world that I inhabited and I [TS]

00:37:59 ◼   ► like I have no context for i don't i [TS]

00:38:02 ◼   ► don't know what she experienced in that [TS]

00:38:03 ◼   ► and now right now she's super into Myles [TS]

00:38:08 ◼   ► Kennedy who is in a band [TS]

00:38:12 ◼   ► who's the singer of a band featuring at [TS]

00:38:15 ◼   ► least two members of creed my and so she [TS]

00:38:19 ◼   ► listen she puts myles kennedy on it's [TS]

00:38:22 ◼   ► like she's eclectic she decided at one [TS]

00:38:25 ◼   ► point that slash's snakepit was good in [TS]

00:38:29 ◼   ► case remind our listeners roughly the [TS]

00:38:31 ◼   ► age of your mom going to be specific [TS]

00:38:33 ◼   ► she's 82 ok and and so then through that [TS]

00:38:38 ◼   ► she said should I listen to Crede and I [TS]

00:38:42 ◼   ► said no and she said I think I'm going [TS]

00:38:45 ◼   ► to ignore your advice and she went and [TS]

00:38:47 ◼   ► listened to accrete album and she said [TS]

00:38:52 ◼   ► this guy sounds like an asshole but this [TS]

00:38:54 ◼   ► music is great and I said that is the [TS]

00:38:58 ◼   ► consensus of a lot of people some people [TS]

00:39:03 ◼   ► can't get past the fact that this guy [TS]

00:39:05 ◼   ► sounds like an asshole so much that they [TS]

00:39:07 ◼   ► they can't even appreciate the like [TS]

00:39:09 ◼   ► Duncan jump.john of the tunes and she [TS]

00:39:14 ◼   ► was like that's you know I think the [TS]

00:39:15 ◼   ► band is good and I think this asshole at [TS]

00:39:17 ◼   ► least is this good singer and so she [TS]

00:39:20 ◼   ► bought all the Creed records and she's [TS]

00:39:21 ◼   ► walking around I'm sure right now she's [TS]

00:39:23 ◼   ► out for a walk with her ipod mini [TS]

00:39:24 ◼   ► listening to creed and so on the one [TS]

00:39:29 ◼   ► hand she's listen to all indie rock [TS]

00:39:32 ◼   ► music that was ever made but on the [TS]

00:39:34 ◼   ► other hand that has delivered her unto [TS]

00:39:36 ◼   ► Creed whereas I never listen to any of [TS]

00:39:40 ◼   ► that music and so I am I'm absolved [TS]

00:39:43 ◼   ► there listening to creat she's but she's [TS]

00:39:45 ◼   ► having a more pure experience of the [TS]

00:39:48 ◼   ► music as a as its own thing [TS]

00:39:50 ◼   ► orderly orderly peaceful fair yet she [TS]

00:39:53 ◼   ► has no sense of like this band belongs [TS]

00:39:55 ◼   ► in this box [TS]

00:39:57 ◼   ► these people are from this part of the [TS]

00:39:59 ◼   ► country which is instead of like that [TS]

00:40:01 ◼   ► this person told me to not touch the [TS]

00:40:03 ◼   ► craft services or I know I know the real [TS]

00:40:06 ◼   ► deal with this guy [TS]

00:40:07 ◼   ► she'sshe's unburdened by your insider [TS]

00:40:09 ◼   ► knowledge as a professional and as a [TS]

00:40:12 ◼   ► kind of fan but like somebody in the [TS]

00:40:15 ◼   ► industry she's unburdened by that burned [TS]

00:40:17 ◼   ► by that and also unburdened by what what [TS]

00:40:20 ◼   ► John Flansburg used to call trouble [TS]

00:40:22 ◼   ► kicking indie rock which was when it [TS]

00:40:25 ◼   ► comes on [TS]

00:40:26 ◼   ► she doesn't even contextualize it within [TS]

00:40:28 ◼   ► the history of rock [TS]

00:40:30 ◼   ► she's just listens to every album more [TS]

00:40:33 ◼   ► or less with it with a clean slate [TS]

00:40:35 ◼   ► she puts it in and she's like I mean I [TS]

00:40:37 ◼   ► don't even I don't even think she looks [TS]

00:40:39 ◼   ► at the cover and sees how put a bird on [TS]

00:40:42 ◼   ► it some of these bands are she doesn't [TS]

00:40:45 ◼   ► go in prejudiced like a lot of the bands [TS]

00:40:47 ◼   ► i'm flipping through the cds i watch the [TS]

00:40:50 ◼   ► i was i'm watching just from the covers [TS]

00:40:53 ◼   ► the rise and fall of put a bird on it [TS]

00:40:56 ◼   ► culture and I see the proto the proto [TS]

00:41:00 ◼   ► birds a lot of those records where the [TS]

00:41:03 ◼   ► band would never in a million years put [TS]

00:41:05 ◼   ► a picture of themselves anywhere on the [TS]

00:41:07 ◼   ► record for any information about [TS]

00:41:09 ◼   ► themselves at all because that would I [TS]

00:41:11 ◼   ► don't know what say something about them [TS]

00:41:13 ◼   ► but by not doing it they are very [TS]

00:41:16 ◼   ► definitely saying something about them [TS]

00:41:18 ◼   ► and i'm watching these cds go by and I [TS]

00:41:20 ◼   ► see quiet is the new laughs [TS]

00:41:22 ◼   ► would go up and down icy loud as the new [TS]

00:41:26 ◼   ► quiet common go and so I have all this [TS]

00:41:30 ◼   ► this historic context and in a way i'm [TS]

00:41:33 ◼   ► i'm writing reviews of records that I've [TS]

00:41:37 ◼   ► never heard just by just by watching [TS]

00:41:40 ◼   ► them good just as just going through a [TS]

00:41:41 ◼   ► bit of the A's and B's and then the next [TS]

00:41:44 ◼   ► time I come to her how she plops down a [TS]

00:41:46 ◼   ► bit of the season DS season these nuts [TS]

00:41:51 ◼   ► which is a joke from this era right I [TS]

00:41:56 ◼   ► never heard it with the sea season the [TS]

00:41:59 ◼   ► season nuts i don't know i never knew [TS]

00:42:01 ◼   ► what that meant it was something from a [TS]

00:42:03 ◼   ► movie [TS]

00:42:03 ◼   ► yeah it was a i was reminded the other [TS]

00:42:06 ◼   ► day of icing did you ever get ice [TS]

00:42:08 ◼   ► I don't know you can't give a high level [TS]

00:42:11 ◼   ► on what I sing is there was a fad [TS]

00:42:13 ◼   ► backstage at festivals for a very brief [TS]

00:42:17 ◼   ► period somewhere back there in the [TS]

00:42:20 ◼   ► mid-2000s where some beer that was [TS]

00:42:25 ◼   ► called ice ice beer [TS]

00:42:28 ◼   ► oh the ice beer era ice beer area [TS]

00:42:31 ◼   ► getting but ice right and to be iced was [TS]

00:42:35 ◼   ► a pretty one of these ice beers was [TS]

00:42:37 ◼   ► particularly terrible and even maybe use [TS]

00:42:41 ◼   ► a keystone know wasn't it wasn't that it [TS]

00:42:44 ◼   ► was terrible because it was cheap [TS]

00:42:46 ◼   ► it was terrible not maybe not only [TS]

00:42:48 ◼   ► because it was cheap but because of it [TS]

00:42:49 ◼   ► was just terrible [TS]

00:42:50 ◼   ► I don't remember why because I don't [TS]

00:42:52 ◼   ► drink beer okay but to be iced was to [TS]

00:42:55 ◼   ► walk up to somebody and take a knee bend [TS]

00:42:58 ◼   ► down and hold up this brand of ice beer [TS]

00:43:02 ◼   ► which it's kind of like the ice bucket [TS]

00:43:05 ◼   ► challenge now that a person has been [TS]

00:43:07 ◼   ► down and handed you this ice beer you [TS]

00:43:09 ◼   ► have to drink it you have to drink this [TS]

00:43:11 ◼   ► terrible beer which everybody agreed was [TS]

00:43:13 ◼   ► terrible and then you had to then then [TS]

00:43:17 ◼   ► you were tagged you had to go ice [TS]

00:43:19 ◼   ► somebody else I saw this go down [TS]

00:43:23 ◼   ► I saw this go down many times backstage [TS]

00:43:25 ◼   ► this and and then you know some whenever [TS]

00:43:29 ◼   ► somebody would try to ice me I would ice [TS]

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00:45:52 ◼   ► great shows you can go ahead but like [TS]

00:45:55 ◼   ► what the hell is that was you know that [TS]

00:45:56 ◼   ► was i SPECT bucket challenge level of [TS]

00:45:59 ◼   ► everybody's doing this and now nobody's [TS]

00:46:00 ◼   ► doing this because it was idiotic so I'm [TS]

00:46:04 ◼   ► going on that's going to be using the DS [TS]

00:46:06 ◼   ► everyone pass everyone that passes [TS]

00:46:09 ◼   ► through my hand I feel a little bit of [TS]

00:46:12 ◼   ► guilt at not having listened to and not [TS]

00:46:15 ◼   ► having because some of them I'm sure our [TS]

00:46:17 ◼   ► gems some of them would be those albums [TS]

00:46:20 ◼   ► that are like wow this album really [TS]

00:46:22 ◼   ► changed me that he still had posted [TS]

00:46:24 ◼   ► notes at this point a some of them do [TS]

00:46:26 ◼   ► some of the post-it notes have been and [TS]

00:46:28 ◼   ► when I find a stack of my mom's post-it [TS]

00:46:30 ◼   ► notes that are detached from the thing [TS]

00:46:32 ◼   ► that they posted originally detached [TS]

00:46:35 ◼   ► from the post those are also wonderful [TS]

00:46:37 ◼   ► and you can make little notes and [TS]

00:46:39 ◼   ► remarks about things [TS]

00:46:41 ◼   ► yeah you could you make coffee table [TS]

00:46:42 ◼   ► book just of her post it no saying you [TS]

00:46:45 ◼   ► should because she's also funded because [TS]

00:46:47 ◼   ► she likes to put things away but i would [TS]

00:46:51 ◼   ► i would yell at her because she would [TS]

00:46:53 ◼   ► put things away and I couldn't find them [TS]

00:46:54 ◼   ► because my organization style is I know [TS]

00:46:57 ◼   ► where things are over there already put [TS]

00:47:00 ◼   ► away that one is put away on the coffee [TS]

00:47:03 ◼   ► table underneath some other things that [TS]

00:47:05 ◼   ► she thinks it's not put away enough it's [TS]

00:47:07 ◼   ► not put away and if it has to go in the [TS]

00:47:08 ◼   ► draw uh-huh [TS]

00:47:10 ◼   ► and so she would put something away but [TS]

00:47:11 ◼   ► then she would leave me a post-it note [TS]

00:47:13 ◼   ► saying the thing that you're looking for [TS]

00:47:15 ◼   ► that was under that stack of other [TS]

00:47:17 ◼   ► things is now in the following draw in [TS]

00:47:21 ◼   ► the third drawer to the left please a [TS]

00:47:23 ◼   ► little little breadcrumb trail little [TS]

00:47:25 ◼   ► breadcrumb trail and if I didn't [TS]

00:47:28 ◼   ► immediately go and retrieve that thing [TS]

00:47:30 ◼   ► and put it back where I wanted it then [TS]

00:47:33 ◼   ► the note became completely out of [TS]

00:47:36 ◼   ► context because because a lot of them [TS]

00:47:39 ◼   ► were referring not specifically to the [TS]

00:47:41 ◼   ► thing itself but the prior location of [TS]

00:47:45 ◼   ► them of the thing and its present [TS]

00:47:47 ◼   ► location and those locations change over [TS]

00:47:50 ◼   ► time [TS]

00:47:51 ◼   ► so becomes a treasure map to treasure is [TS]

00:47:53 ◼   ► constantly in motion and I find those [TS]

00:47:58 ◼   ► still all the time because a lot of [TS]

00:48:00 ◼   ► those post-it notes I didn't want to [TS]

00:48:02 ◼   ► throw away and so I put them in an [TS]

00:48:04 ◼   ► interest in a stack of thing haha whoa [TS]

00:48:06 ◼   ► yeah so I'm going through a stack of [TS]

00:48:08 ◼   ► things i find a note about a prior stack [TS]

00:48:10 ◼   ► of things that she's moved because that [TS]

00:48:12 ◼   ► goes in the note collection [TS]

00:48:13 ◼   ► yeah and I and I think do I keep this [TS]

00:48:16 ◼   ► note because it's so that must drive her [TS]

00:48:19 ◼   ► crazy she's hosted by our own petard [TS]

00:48:21 ◼   ► she is or do i get rid of the note now [TS]

00:48:24 ◼   ► that it's meaningless but if i start if [TS]

00:48:26 ◼   ► I stopped and got rid of every [TS]

00:48:27 ◼   ► meaningless note like how would I how [TS]

00:48:31 ◼   ► would I recognize my own path [TS]

00:48:32 ◼   ► well I mean what what we mean by [TS]

00:48:34 ◼   ► meaningless sure she took the time to to [TS]

00:48:38 ◼   ► believe me these insensible notes that [TS]

00:48:41 ◼   ► are describing / need to move my things [TS]

00:48:45 ◼   ► into drawers and i would love I would [TS]

00:48:49 ◼   ► love a record of that I don't blame you [TS]

00:48:53 ◼   ► i mean i keep I keep garbage like that I [TS]

00:48:55 ◼   ► keep like my wife must mix our daughters [TS]

00:48:58 ◼   ► lunches now but in the time when I was [TS]

00:49:00 ◼   ► making lunches a lot i would always have [TS]

00:49:02 ◼   ► taken index card i put a sticker on it [TS]

00:49:04 ◼   ► and then make some kind of a remark and [TS]

00:49:07 ◼   ► I would always do and I say about the [TS]

00:49:08 ◼   ► lunch [TS]

00:49:09 ◼   ► well it was usually like a Marvel [TS]

00:49:10 ◼   ► character sticker and I try to say [TS]

00:49:11 ◼   ► something clever that was really just a [TS]

00:49:13 ◼   ► dad joke you know be thorne would say [TS]

00:49:15 ◼   ► enjoy I lunch or whatever and just [TS]

00:49:17 ◼   ► really stupid stuff but I save those and [TS]

00:49:19 ◼   ► i'm glad i am glad i did that for me [TS]

00:49:21 ◼   ► it's not for her they're not [TS]

00:49:22 ◼   ► particularly clever right well she was [TS]

00:49:24 ◼   ► like four years old and couldn't read ya [TS]

00:49:27 ◼   ► better policy really good reader no well [TS]

00:49:30 ◼   ► I imagine knowing she's just really [TS]

00:49:32 ◼   ► really good reader now I think being a [TS]

00:49:34 ◼   ► good reader is better than being good [TS]

00:49:35 ◼   ► sports oh please [TS]

00:49:38 ◼   ► but not everybody shares that feeling hi [TS]

00:49:41 ◼   ► now some people think that being a good [TS]

00:49:43 ◼   ► sports is better is it more important [TS]

00:49:45 ◼   ► more important to be smarter kind or is [TS]

00:49:50 ◼   ► that is that a nonequivalent an unfair [TS]

00:49:54 ◼   ► comparison [TS]

00:49:56 ◼   ► well that could put that in easier ways [TS]

00:49:59 ◼   ► for you actually say it could say is it [TS]

00:50:01 ◼   ► better to test well or be a good person [TS]

00:50:03 ◼   ► Anjali deliberately leaving a little bit [TS]

00:50:05 ◼   ► wavy gravy they were talking about this [TS]

00:50:06 ◼   ► on the national public radio today and [TS]

00:50:08 ◼   ► I'm thinking about it a little bit i [TS]

00:50:10 ◼   ► mean do we need to we need more kindness [TS]

00:50:12 ◼   ► I feel that we have we have a little bit [TS]

00:50:17 ◼   ► of kindness over our kindness overload [TS]

00:50:20 ◼   ► right now because it's not politeness [TS]

00:50:23 ◼   ► this is kindness kindness [TS]

00:50:25 ◼   ► well yeah because the definition of [TS]

00:50:27 ◼   ► kindness is moving target [TS]

00:50:29 ◼   ► well see here's the thing they talked [TS]

00:50:31 ◼   ► about on the National Public Radio and I [TS]

00:50:32 ◼   ► thought this was a nice distinction a [TS]

00:50:34 ◼   ► bully you take a bully you take a lien [TS]

00:50:37 ◼   ► on scut Farkus but let's say taking [TS]

00:50:38 ◼   ► Eddie Haskell think of all mrs. cleaver [TS]

00:50:41 ◼   ► man ran like a bully can be extremely [TS]

00:50:43 ◼   ► polite but is not very kind [TS]

00:50:45 ◼   ► well sure but you can you can be the you [TS]

00:50:50 ◼   ► can be kind you can attempt to be kind [TS]

00:50:53 ◼   ► and what what ends up happening with a [TS]

00:50:57 ◼   ► lot of kindness is that you are [TS]

00:50:59 ◼   ► presuming to know what other people need [TS]

00:51:02 ◼   ► your presuming to know what other people [TS]

00:51:05 ◼   ► need and what what they want or what to [TS]

00:51:07 ◼   ► expect even or what they expect [TS]

00:51:09 ◼   ► and so I see this a lot in our in our [TS]

00:51:14 ◼   ► current culture people are presuming to [TS]

00:51:17 ◼   ► act on behalf of other people and [TS]

00:51:19 ◼   ► generally motivated by a desire to be [TS]

00:51:22 ◼   ► kind but but what ends up happening is [TS]

00:51:26 ◼   ► that they are imposing their worldview [TS]

00:51:30 ◼   ► they're taking other people's agency in [TS]

00:51:33 ◼   ► a lot of ways are there they are [TS]

00:51:34 ◼   ► presuming that what the person needs is [TS]

00:51:38 ◼   ► them an unrelated person behaving a [TS]

00:51:41 ◼   ► certain way and real kindness which is [TS]

00:51:45 ◼   ► just going I mean going through life and [TS]

00:51:48 ◼   ► acting kindly is a thing that doesn't [TS]

00:51:55 ◼   ► need to be talked about on NPR it's not [TS]

00:51:58 ◼   ► a thing that we need to write think [TS]

00:52:00 ◼   ► pieces about how we need more [TS]

00:52:02 ◼   ► it because it's the things piece [TS]

00:52:04 ◼   ► inspires people who are looking for [TS]

00:52:07 ◼   ► accolades who are imagining that they [TS]

00:52:11 ◼   ► are saintly who are trying to trying to [TS]

00:52:15 ◼   ► change the course of the culture in ways [TS]

00:52:19 ◼   ► they think the culture need needs to be [TS]

00:52:20 ◼   ► changed and kindness is a thing that you [TS]

00:52:24 ◼   ► i think some people have and some people [TS]

00:52:27 ◼   ► are forced to have huh [TS]

00:52:30 ◼   ► but and the people that have it are our [TS]

00:52:35 ◼   ► kind and and and I and I think a lot of [TS]

00:52:38 ◼   ► it really as a parent now I see things [TS]

00:52:41 ◼   ► like that being present innately in [TS]

00:52:45 ◼   ► children where they haven't been taught [TS]

00:52:47 ◼   ► it there are there are children i met [TS]

00:52:49 ◼   ► when they were one and a half years old [TS]

00:52:50 ◼   ► that we're already intrinsically kind [TS]

00:52:52 ◼   ► and there were children that were awful [TS]

00:52:54 ◼   ► and it wasn't a thing that their parents [TS]

00:52:56 ◼   ► had any effect on it was just like Oh [TS]

00:52:58 ◼   ► apparently God thought the world needed [TS]

00:53:01 ◼   ► another unkind person and so he made [TS]

00:53:04 ◼   ► this one check and then he needed some [TS]

00:53:08 ◼   ► more kind people and so he made these [TS]

00:53:09 ◼   ► but but ice i see people assuming that [TS]

00:53:16 ◼   ► they're kinda assuming that their [TS]

00:53:18 ◼   ► kindness is needed and a lot of them are [TS]

00:53:20 ◼   ► any Haskell's and they decided it could [TS]

00:53:23 ◼   ► be it can be a kind of [TS]

00:53:25 ◼   ► passive-aggressive or even aggressive [TS]

00:53:28 ◼   ► move [TS]

00:53:29 ◼   ► yeah because then you get to put your [TS]

00:53:32 ◼   ► frame on how this situation is happening [TS]

00:53:34 ◼   ► yeah when you're when you're under the [TS]

00:53:36 ◼   ► guise of being kind of being in or being [TS]

00:53:40 ◼   ► helpful [TS]

00:53:41 ◼   ► yeah right that people i mean i think i [TS]

00:53:43 ◼   ► think one of the most common problems [TS]

00:53:45 ◼   ► that people interacting with one another [TS]

00:53:46 ◼   ► is that um and and again that there are [TS]

00:53:51 ◼   ► there are lots and lots of extra verts [TS]

00:53:54 ◼   ► in the world who aren't thinking this [TS]

00:53:55 ◼   ► much about interaction they're just [TS]

00:53:57 ◼   ► being and when you talk to a lot of [TS]

00:54:01 ◼   ► introverted people who / think their [TS]

00:54:04 ◼   ► interactions they will say I don't trust [TS]

00:54:06 ◼   ► extroverts because they aren't neurotic [TS]

00:54:11 ◼   ► and neuroses seems like a good indicator [TS]

00:54:14 ◼   ► of intelligence and without Charlotte at [TS]

00:54:18 ◼   ► least thoughts on this platform this but [TS]

00:54:20 ◼   ► I'm you know a thoughtful in a sense if [TS]

00:54:21 ◼   ► you think about things and thinking [TS]

00:54:23 ◼   ► about things is how we describe [TS]

00:54:24 ◼   ► intelligence you know like that yeah I [TS]

00:54:27 ◼   ► mean you know what i mean like i do but [TS]

00:54:28 ◼   ► i think there's a difference between [TS]

00:54:29 ◼   ► book intelligence and emotional [TS]

00:54:31 ◼   ► intelligence and i think i'm not [TS]

00:54:33 ◼   ► advocating for yes thought I'm just [TS]

00:54:35 ◼   ► joking right [TS]

00:54:36 ◼   ► um thinking a lot about introversion [TS]

00:54:37 ◼   ► these days well yeah I mean because I [TS]

00:54:40 ◼   ► because I'm i have self-identified as [TS]

00:54:42 ◼   ► one and so introverts now talk to me [TS]

00:54:44 ◼   ► about it but uh but what I what I see [TS]

00:54:48 ◼   ► people doing is they are they're [TS]

00:54:52 ◼   ► imagining that their behavior is [TS]

00:54:54 ◼   ► important and whether or not they are [TS]

00:54:57 ◼   ► racist or not a racist is important in [TS]

00:55:00 ◼   ► the world and what they're doing a lot [TS]

00:55:03 ◼   ► of cases is leaping ahead of the present [TS]

00:55:06 ◼   ► predicting the future and I'm talking [TS]

00:55:10 ◼   ► about even in immediate terms like [TS]

00:55:12 ◼   ► predicting the future of this engagement [TS]

00:55:13 ◼   ► 15 minutes from now imagining in that [TS]

00:55:17 ◼   ► future there the other person the person [TS]

00:55:20 ◼   ► they're talking to and trying to move [TS]

00:55:24 ◼   ► the experience move the interaction in [TS]

00:55:27 ◼   ► the direction of what they think the [TS]

00:55:29 ◼   ► future should be rather than letting the [TS]

00:55:31 ◼   ► interaction unfold and so they are you [TS]

00:55:35 ◼   ► know they're trying to behave in a [TS]

00:55:37 ◼   ► certain way to produce a certain outcome [TS]

00:55:39 ◼   ► which they have arrived at and are now [TS]

00:55:43 ◼   ► trying to accomplish as a form of being [TS]

00:55:46 ◼   ► kind to this person or sensitive to them [TS]

00:55:49 ◼   ► and their needs but they're also not be [TS]

00:55:50 ◼   ► a very good improviser they're not [TS]

00:55:52 ◼   ► improvising and they're not and what [TS]

00:55:55 ◼   ► they're ultimately doing is trying to [TS]

00:55:56 ◼   ► take control and trying to and they am [TS]

00:55:59 ◼   ► and I think in this process they imagine [TS]

00:56:01 ◼   ► that they know better what the other [TS]

00:56:04 ◼   ► person needs then the person themselves [TS]

00:56:07 ◼   ► is it possible they are not aware [TS]

00:56:08 ◼   ► they're doing that its absolute I think [TS]

00:56:11 ◼   ► they're in most cases they're not and i [TS]

00:56:13 ◼   ► think it derives a lot of time from [TS]

00:56:15 ◼   ► teachers and parents having listened to [TS]

00:56:17 ◼   ► an NPR piece about how we need more [TS]

00:56:19 ◼   ► kindness and then they interact with [TS]

00:56:21 ◼   ► this [TS]

00:56:22 ◼   ► it's light mischaracterization but allow [TS]

00:56:24 ◼   ► it's you know like the think piece on [TS]

00:56:27 ◼   ► how we need more kindness it was about [TS]

00:56:29 ◼   ► it was about ruminating on nevermind go [TS]

00:56:31 ◼   ► ahead but there's a lot of this in the [TS]

00:56:33 ◼   ► culture their billboards now that's a [TS]

00:56:35 ◼   ► like we need to combat bullying and i [TS]

00:56:37 ◼   ► think that at one level and we you and I [TS]

00:56:39 ◼   ► have talked about this and in terms of [TS]

00:56:41 ◼   ► your own daughters experience in school [TS]

00:56:42 ◼   ► like yes we need to combat bullying [TS]

00:56:45 ◼   ► I you know it in in the sense that we [TS]

00:56:48 ◼   ► don't tolerate bullying but what ends up [TS]

00:56:52 ◼   ► happening is that we're leaping ahead [TS]

00:56:53 ◼   ► and and stand addressing students who [TS]

00:56:57 ◼   ► aren't bullies addressing the the wide [TS]

00:57:00 ◼   ► spectrum of people with the goal of [TS]

00:57:03 ◼   ► eradicated bullying which is bullying is [TS]

00:57:07 ◼   ► not a single thing it's not a it's not a [TS]

00:57:11 ◼   ► certain kind of behavior like it's a [TS]

00:57:13 ◼   ► mentality it's a it's something [TS]

00:57:16 ◼   ► intrinsic to humans it some kids and [TS]

00:57:19 ◼   ► again I've seen two-year-olds that were [TS]

00:57:21 ◼   ► just born bullies but in this in this [TS]

00:57:24 ◼   ► desire to not have bullying affect the [TS]

00:57:27 ◼   ► sensitive kids we're making these [TS]

00:57:29 ◼   ► blanket assumptions about how people [TS]

00:57:32 ◼   ► interact trying to head them off at the [TS]

00:57:34 ◼   ► pass and so then we create kids who are [TS]

00:57:38 ◼   ► self editing editing their friends you [TS]

00:57:42 ◼   ► know vigilant over vigilant over things [TS]

00:57:45 ◼   ► that could potentially be bullying and [TS]

00:57:47 ◼   ► creating not necessarily a culture of [TS]

00:57:50 ◼   ► kindness but a culture of [TS]

00:57:52 ◼   ► hyper-vigilance about other people's [TS]

00:57:57 ◼   ► behavior and about potential outcomes of [TS]

00:57:59 ◼   ► interactions that aren't really even [TS]

00:58:02 ◼   ► sewn in the interaction they're not [TS]

00:58:05 ◼   ► they're not present there there only [TS]

00:58:08 ◼   ► present in the prognostication and so [TS]

00:58:12 ◼   ► you know part part part of it is from [TS]

00:58:15 ◼   ► hearing you [TS]

00:58:15 ◼   ► part of it is that in our drive to [TS]

00:58:19 ◼   ► eradicate this thing we all agree is bad [TS]

00:58:21 ◼   ► we end up artificially rerouting a lot [TS]

00:58:25 ◼   ► of how people operate with each other is [TS]

00:58:28 ◼   ► that that's part of it [TS]

00:58:29 ◼   ► well yeah because I mean you're charging [TS]

00:58:34 ◼   ► young kids with the authority to know to [TS]

00:58:39 ◼   ► look at it in you to look at an [TS]

00:58:41 ◼   ► interaction between people and and and [TS]

00:58:44 ◼   ► try and headed off identify behaviors as [TS]

00:58:48 ◼   ► as certain kind of behavior behaviors [TS]

00:58:52 ◼   ► that are in Psychological silo and [TS]

00:58:55 ◼   ► you're teaching kids and I missing [TS]

00:58:57 ◼   ► whether I agree disagree but I just [TS]

00:58:58 ◼   ► clarify its also it also seems like be [TS]

00:59:01 ◼   ► careful with that kind of stuff because [TS]

00:59:03 ◼   ► you're creating a new kind of pattern [TS]

00:59:04 ◼   ► matching machine [TS]

00:59:05 ◼   ► yeah right i mean you're you're [TS]

00:59:07 ◼   ► encouraging your ears you're encouraging [TS]

00:59:09 ◼   ► people for whether it's a good better [TS]

00:59:12 ◼   ► whatever reason or outcome that you're [TS]

00:59:14 ◼   ► looking for you are in the same way that [TS]

00:59:16 ◼   ► like high-stakes testing makes kids [TS]

00:59:18 ◼   ► won't have to be good at tests in this [TS]

00:59:19 ◼   ► case you're encouraging a certain kind [TS]

00:59:21 ◼   ► of pattern matching that on somebody [TS]

00:59:24 ◼   ► using equipment that maybe isn't [TS]

00:59:26 ◼   ► completely developed yet right or and it [TS]

00:59:30 ◼   ► was even capable of being developed like [TS]

00:59:31 ◼   ► my personal version of it dating back to [TS]

00:59:34 ◼   ► the nineteen seventies and eighties was [TS]

00:59:37 ◼   ► that I was raised in an environment [TS]

00:59:38 ◼   ► where i heard all the time about how men [TS]

00:59:41 ◼   ► wanted sex and pretended to understand [TS]

00:59:45 ◼   ► what love was in order to accomplish sex [TS]

00:59:47 ◼   ► and women wanted love and they pretended [TS]

00:59:50 ◼   ► to enjoy sex in order to get love and it [TS]

00:59:53 ◼   ► was a completely simple reduction of the [TS]

00:59:56 ◼   ► truth in order to exploit [TS]

00:59:56 ◼   ► truth in order to exploit [TS]

01:00:00 ◼   ► Ain a perception of the gulf between men [TS]

01:00:03 ◼   ► and women that was a product of the kind [TS]

01:00:06 ◼   ► of revolution both sexual revolution and [TS]

01:00:09 ◼   ► feminist revolution of the late sixties [TS]

01:00:10 ◼   ► early seventies and so that was [TS]

01:00:12 ◼   ► transmitted to me as a young person in [TS]

01:00:15 ◼   ► the seventies and transmitted to me in [TS]

01:00:18 ◼   ► the hope that I would not be this type [TS]

01:00:20 ◼   ► of person that if we could reach a [TS]

01:00:22 ◼   ► generation of young men and say this is [TS]

01:00:24 ◼   ► the this is the this is our perception [TS]

01:00:27 ◼   ► of the of the conditions currently and [TS]

01:00:31 ◼   ► if you know about it and you are and [TS]

01:00:33 ◼   ► it's explained to you and it's explained [TS]

01:00:36 ◼   ► to you that this isn't something we want [TS]

01:00:37 ◼   ► to recapitulate then we can interrupt [TS]

01:00:41 ◼   ► this long-standing resort patriarchal [TS]

01:00:45 ◼   ► pattern and what it produced in me was [TS]

01:00:49 ◼   ► when i was sitting in interacting with [TS]

01:00:51 ◼   ► girls in my in my early days i was [TS]

01:00:54 ◼   ► trying to head this tendency off at the [TS]

01:00:56 ◼   ► pass and say listen I don't just want [TS]

01:01:02 ◼   ► sex from you i do want to experience [TS]

01:01:04 ◼   ► love and I want to be there for you in [TS]

01:01:06 ◼   ► the ways that you want me to be there [TS]

01:01:08 ◼   ► and in a lot of cases that was just [TS]

01:01:11 ◼   ► wrong [TS]

01:01:12 ◼   ► it wasn't a description of what was [TS]

01:01:14 ◼   ► happening at all it was the best thing [TS]

01:01:16 ◼   ► that my parents generation could come up [TS]

01:01:18 ◼   ► with to describe what they proceed but [TS]

01:01:21 ◼   ► in a lot of instances the girls i was [TS]

01:01:26 ◼   ► interacting with as a teenager [TS]

01:01:28 ◼   ► we're saying what no I just want to [TS]

01:01:32 ◼   ► experiment with sex [TS]

01:01:33 ◼   ► I'm excited about it and I just want to [TS]

01:01:36 ◼   ► play in that space and I was like I know [TS]

01:01:38 ◼   ► you think that but this is part of our [TS]

01:01:42 ◼   ► indoctrination and what we really need [TS]

01:01:45 ◼   ► to do is and by that time a lot of those [TS]

01:01:47 ◼   ► people had already gotten up out of the [TS]

01:01:50 ◼   ► chair and we're going to somebody else [TS]

01:01:51 ◼   ► to talk to them and hope hope that next [TS]

01:01:54 ◼   ► person might just give them some sex [TS]

01:01:56 ◼   ► and for many many years my own [TS]

01:01:59 ◼   ► development was inhibited by what by the [TS]

01:02:03 ◼   ► job that I'd been given by adult humans [TS]

01:02:08 ◼   ► who thought they understood what human [TS]

01:02:11 ◼   ► interactions were and thought they had a [TS]

01:02:13 ◼   ► formula and all we needed to do is teach [TS]

01:02:15 ◼   ► our kids and i created more problems [TS]

01:02:18 ◼   ► both in my own life and for other people [TS]

01:02:21 ◼   ► because i wasn't leaping ahead in our [TS]

01:02:23 ◼   ► interaction to a time when the girl was [TS]

01:02:28 ◼   ► sitting sobbing because all I wanted was [TS]

01:02:30 ◼   ► sex you know like I imagined that I knew [TS]

01:02:34 ◼   ► better than they did what they wanted in [TS]

01:02:37 ◼   ► the future and so I see in our culture [TS]

01:02:40 ◼   ► now another iteration of that we can [TS]

01:02:43 ◼   ► never know in our own time [TS]

01:02:45 ◼   ► how ridiculous we're going to look to [TS]

01:02:47 ◼   ► people 30 years from now and our [TS]

01:02:50 ◼   ► understanding of what we need and what [TS]

01:02:52 ◼   ► and how much we can intervene is going [TS]

01:02:55 ◼   ► to seem ludicrous but we're doing it so [TS]

01:02:58 ◼   ► actively and so aggressively like [TS]

01:03:01 ◼   ► getting into kids minds trying to create [TS]

01:03:04 ◼   ► a trying to engineer a future that we [TS]

01:03:10 ◼   ► imagine day is better for them and and [TS]

01:03:15 ◼   ► those kids are just like okay I guess [TS]

01:03:17 ◼   ► you know like the contemporary versions [TS]

01:03:20 ◼   ► of it are are something else we we think [TS]

01:03:23 ◼   ► we've unlocked the the secret and you [TS]

01:03:28 ◼   ► know where within my own interactions [TS]

01:03:30 ◼   ► with my kid I try to just sit in the [TS]

01:03:32 ◼   ► chair and listen to what she says [TS]

01:03:33 ◼   ► there's a kid in school right now that [TS]

01:03:34 ◼   ► hits her and every day she comes home [TS]

01:03:38 ◼   ► and says well you know Billy hit me [TS]

01:03:40 ◼   ► again and we're sitting here as a family [TS]

01:03:43 ◼   ► going is the teacher not watching this [TS]

01:03:45 ◼   ► is is he is she's saying that he's [TS]

01:03:47 ◼   ► hitting her and he's hitting everybody [TS]

01:03:49 ◼   ► and it's a it's I mean what she doesn't [TS]

01:03:51 ◼   ► seem super traumatized by she just [TS]

01:03:53 ◼   ► doesn't want to play with Billy doesn't [TS]

01:03:54 ◼   ► understand why is hitting her [TS]

01:03:56 ◼   ► and so today we're writing a letter to [TS]

01:04:01 ◼   ► the teacher saying is this happening [TS]

01:04:04 ◼   ► would you watch this would you see what [TS]

01:04:06 ◼   ► this is [TS]

01:04:07 ◼   ► uh-huh but yesterday I got a letter from [TS]

01:04:12 ◼   ► two parents in the school who in my [TS]

01:04:17 ◼   ► daughter's class and the teacher this is [TS]

01:04:20 ◼   ► a kindergarten class the teacher has [TS]

01:04:22 ◼   ► been assigning homework and the home and [TS]

01:04:24 ◼   ► you bring it home and the homework is [TS]

01:04:25 ◼   ► trace the trace the letters find the [TS]

01:04:28 ◼   ► hippopotamus learn the following 15 [TS]

01:04:32 ◼   ► words by sight [TS]

01:04:33 ◼   ► you know kindergarten uh-huh and my [TS]

01:04:36 ◼   ► daughter loves it she just it's work [TS]

01:04:38 ◼   ► that she loves to do but there was a [TS]

01:04:41 ◼   ► letter sent around to everybody in the [TS]

01:04:43 ◼   ► class by two parents who obviously work [TS]

01:04:45 ◼   ► in high-level tech world and the letter [TS]

01:04:51 ◼   ► was 40 paragraphs long saying we don't [TS]

01:04:55 ◼   ► think it's right that the kids be [TS]

01:04:57 ◼   ► assigned homework because of the [TS]

01:05:00 ◼   ► following series that we've read about [TS]

01:05:03 ◼   ► childhood development and the nessus [TS]

01:05:05 ◼   ► necessity of play and the danger of of [TS]

01:05:10 ◼   ► high expectations and so forth then they [TS]

01:05:12 ◼   ► will they ran down 40 different theories [TS]

01:05:15 ◼   ► of childhood development that they had [TS]

01:05:16 ◼   ► read and a big part of the letter i [TS]

01:05:19 ◼   ► think was to illustrate all the things [TS]

01:05:22 ◼   ► that they read and how it how and it and [TS]

01:05:27 ◼   ► and and really wasn't communicated was [TS]

01:05:29 ◼   ► we are a high-achieving parents and we [TS]

01:05:34 ◼   ► want our kids to be high achievers and [TS]

01:05:37 ◼   ► the way to get a kid to be a high [TS]

01:05:38 ◼   ► achievers to not stress high achievement [TS]

01:05:40 ◼   ► in them but to let them just learn and [TS]

01:05:43 ◼   ► love and play and they were trying to [TS]

01:05:47 ◼   ► enlist all the other parents in [TS]

01:05:49 ◼   ► confronting the teacher about the [TS]